79 19 Impact Values - Following Him values compromise long-distance relationship priorities commitment hardship adversity growth character sacrifice dominant / submissive temporary / permanent lifestyle independence / dependence What would you do in Kyle’s situation? Lyn’s? What values are in conflict in this situation? Is Kyle’s family justified in asking him to move back to his hometown? What kind of relationship with your family do you foresee in your future? What are the advantages and disadvantages of living close to one’s family? What are the advantages and disadvantages of living in a big city? In a small town? Rank these aspects of life in their importance to you. Use the Priority Grid below if it helps.     career     love     money     family (parents, siblings)     family (spouse, children)     independence / autonomy     social life     security (financial)     safety     adventure, excitement