9 7 Impact Topics - Who Pays? split share “It’s on me.” “Let me get this.” “I’ve got this.” to offer obligation / obligated pressure expectation implications assumptions Kevin expected Joan to pay for half of their date. What do you think about that? Traditionally men have paid for date expenses. Why? Is that changing? How? Why? What are the implications when a person pays for or contributes to date expenses? Traditionally, men asked women out for dates. Is that changing? How? Why? Discuss your own dating experiences, or those of friends. How do you ask someone out on a date? What’s your idea of a good date? A bad one?