65 5 Impact Values - I Can’t Say No pleaser focus prioritize insecure selfish dependent / independent self-reliant use somebody doormat pushover assertive passive submissive deferential alpha (dog) (male) Do you think Brad has a problem? If so, what is it? Why is it  a problem? Do you agree most with Trin, Monica, or Koji? What advice would you give Brad if her were your friend? Is Brad hurting anyone other than himself? Explain. How can someone begin to learn how to say “no”? How easy is it for you to say now when you want to? Do you want to change that? How often do people ask you for help? How does that make you feel? How often do you ask others for help? How does that make you feel?